Pak Wismoyo was a commander who had a significant influence on me. His teachings had a deep impact on me personally. His main teaching to his men was to always think good, do good, and speak well. He emphasized the importance of not thinking badly of others. This teaching has stayed with me throughout the years as I believe that these values are aligned with Indonesian culture and the culture of the Indonesian Armed Forces.
He believed that brave men must also be happy. As a leader, he believed in comforting his men through singing, sports, and other group activities, as he understood that his men always carried out commands from their commander. I first met Pak Wismoyo Arismunandar when I joined KOPASSANDHA. He served as the Deputy Assistant for Security (Waaspam) KOPASSANDHA with the rank of Lieutenant Colonel, while I was a Second Lieutenant. At that time, I learned that he was related to Pak Harto, being his brother-in-law. His wife was the younger sister of Ibu Tien Suharto.
In 1978, he became our Commander in KOPASSANDHA Group 1, where I served as the Commander of Company 112. It was during this time that I really got to know Pak Wismoyo. His motto of ‘Think good, do good, and speak well’ left a lasting impact on me. He always emphasized the value of good spirits and good humor, encouraging us to be spirited and enthusiastic, and to generously applaud when necessary.
Pak Wismoyo believed in creating a happy atmosphere and bonding with his men through various activities. He emphasized the unity of the leader and his men, encouraging leaders to participate in the activities that their men enjoyed, whether it be singing, dancing, or enjoying music.
He was known for rarely getting angry and being forgiving towards those who made mistakes. He believed in giving second and third chances to those who erred. His motto of ‘discipline is my breath, loyalty is my soul, honor is everything’ is something that I still refer to and apply in my leadership.
Pak Wismoyo also set an example through his actions. Despite injuries, he participated in training exercises and parachute jumps with his men. He was skilled in sports like swimming, volleyball, and marksmanship, and encouraged others, including me, to excel in shooting.
Before my first operation as a Company Commander, he reminded me of the importance of being close to the Almighty God, especially when leading troops into potentially dangerous situations. This lesson has stayed with me throughout my military career. Pak Wismoyo’s teachings and example have had a profound impact on my leadership style and approach to leading men in the military.
